Need Tons of Help!

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See... There's this girl I want to go out with... I don't know what to say, I can't even say hi... I get very Embarrased, then what if I ask her and she says NO? What if she thinks i'm a fool? What if she doesn't like my attitude...

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If you're not sure what she's going to say, play it cool by asking her to hang out sometime (ie, going to the movies, mall, or what ever you young people are doing).
You're not the only one who suffers from anxiety talking to the opposite sex (that's why I got married).

Just believe in yourself and carry yourself properly (no looking at your feet, and stand up tall) and take a deep breath and relax. And don't rush your words (that's something I accidently do when I'm speaking to someone). Just take your time.

She's not going to think you're a fool (unless she's a complete *youknowwhat*). You're a nice person and if she doesn't like your attitude she's crazy.

Just remember if you go into any instance in life thinking that you can't; you've already doomed yourself to fail. But if you go in thinking you can, crazy stuff (good stuff) can happen!



Just try to ask her what her fav things are....And ask what movie you like is playing..ask if she would like to go with you...Tell her you will pay for her..And if things go well ask her out. Good Luck. And if she says No its alright. It might hurt you if she says No...but don't worry the pain will pass.

Don't not ask her because you think she'll say no. It's worth a try. I was too scared to ask my girlfriend out a while back (through fear of rejection) and kicked myself for it for literally two years. By chance we met by chance last December and I asked her then and she said yes (But that another story) so do it, but get to know her first.

Yea go for it and Good Luck.

i say try being casual friends with her before "Hey will you go out with me?" she might think you're a little.... weird if you do that. try talking to her first.

You probably shouldn't come on strong.

Thanks for all you're tips, I asked her out to go out for Some lunch tomorrow! Wish me luck, I'll tell you what happens

Just came home from school here in AZ its 3.50pm. The dates at 4.30pm! I only have 40 minutes to get ready! Wish me luck!

Good Luck!

good luck dude. let us know how it went

Its good to be going out with a chick. especially if she has the ass.



All went awesome! That was my first date and as I said, That was awesome! She might go to the Newly built cinema. I'm getting closer to that 1st kiss


Yeah, the first date is always pretty good feeling. Unfortunately it pretty much went downhill for me a month after that

that's too bad well, All i think right now is nothing could get me sad

Sounds like everything is going pretty good




If you were a male, you would understand.

Well. Friday... I got until 6.00 PM (Here is 3.30 PM) To get to Judith's House, then to the cinema... I feel awesome!



"the ass" = superficial good looks. Personality need not apply.

I've seen a lot of people mess up good relationships by calling someone too much. It's only fair that you get warned ahead of time to call her sparingly. Hope things go well!



bah! there's nothing worse than a girl that won't stop calling. well, there are worse things, but it's deffinatly not cool. a few years ago i had a girlfriend that would constantly call me. we'd talk for atleast 6 hours a day (we went out over a summer break) she would get mad at me when i had to go to WORK!

javi.... don't be that guy

Well, i'm 13, so i dont work... (I mean job, not that i am mal functioning)



WHoops, 5.30! Only 30 mins, wish me luck on my second date...

Hope i get that kiss

Bring a Condom! Jks...Take it slooooooow.

I doubt 13 year olds will be having any sexual relations, especially when they usually break up 2 days later.

my first time was when i was 14. i don't think 13 is really much different

im 13 too. sometimes i really wonder how i got into the "nes scene" when i wasnt even part of that late 80s early 90s. i don't even have an older sis or bro who had a nes.




when i was 13 i made movies, and got pissed that i couldn't getthem online......and i have a Girlfriend ,,we hug...........im still 13 so i still have a GF and getting Pissed.



I refuse to believe young people have sex!



bah! there's nothing worse than a girl that won't stop calling. well, there are worse things, but it's deffinatly not cool. a few years ago i had a girlfriend that would constantly call me. we'd talk for atleast 6 hours a day (we went out over a summer break) she would get mad at me when i had to go to WORK!

javi.... don't be that guy

hahaha, half the time i'd watch tv, play a game or listen to music. a couple of times i fell asleep

Well, the date was pretty good She's not that very talkative, but she doesn't stay quiet.

And for having Sex at 14, that's possible, my cousin had sex at 14, her BF forgot the condoms

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!


And for having Sex at 14, that's possible, my cousin had sex at 14, her BF forgot the condoms


wow. that's uhh.... well i hope they both wanted to keep the kid....

nah... theyre going to give it for adoption i feel bad for the kid...