I feel so bad....

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There is this guy at school. He calls me a fag everyday. Today he called me a Fag, And so I couldn't take it no more. So I turned around and push him. I said if you have something smart to say why not just say it to my face? Then I told him to go eat some coins.....He almost died when he was younger because he did that. I felt kind of bad. I was doing this out of rage. I was like if you do this there will be less assholes in this world... Man I wish I could take back what I said. I know he started it but I went to far.... Is there anything I could say to him? I wonder if he will leave me alone now?

Seeing that he calls you a fag every day, I think he deserved it. People that do this sort of thing need to be annoyed back. But then again, this is my opinion. If he knows you're going to fight back, he's probably to either get really pissed off, or just leave you alone.

Well, I guess from a moral standpoint, it's good that you feel bad. However, he was insulting towards you, so you're not entirely in the wrong.

As to whether or not you should apologize, that depends on him. If he is an ass and just got mad about it, well, it didn't affect him that badly. But, if he's a regular guy that just doesn't get along with you, then you should say your sorry, especially if it hurt him.

Basically, if he didn't make a big deal out of it, you shouldn't.

I also think he deserved it.

You shouldn't feel bad about standing up for yourself. You shouldn't just take it until you freak out in a much worse way.

Also, if you make it look like you're easy to assault, kids will assault you. And that's what it is. verbal assault.

If you really feel bad, just say to him someting along the lines of: "I feel bad about the coin thing, but seriously cut it out."

He deserved it.

If he keeps it up, just say hey buddy, how about i shove some coins down your windpipe?

yeah don't worry about. that douche bag deserved it. if it truely offended him maybe he'll leave you alone.



Nice one OGTL. Thankx guys for the help.

I wouldn't feel bad at all. The guy is obviously an asshole (excuse my language).
If you don't stand up for yourself you seem like easy prey. Jerks like that look for weakness (because they are weak themselves).
I used to get teased horribly. I actually had a group of guys who everyday would surround me and tell me I was so ugly I deserved to die and other lovely opinions (this went on for several months). Luckliy I had a good support system of friends who helped me by not leaving me alone whenever possible (they only struck if my friends weren't around). If I would have stood up for myself back then I'm pretty sure they would have left me alone.
In my later school years I learned to stick up for myself and had no more of these problems. It's so much better to have them afraid of you then vise versa.
My brother used to get teased by this creep at school every day (he would call him a fag). One day my brother shoved him through the trophy case; problem solved.
If he doesn't leave you alone I'd be more than happy to shove coins that have been sitting in a toilet down his throat.

There is only so much a person can take before you get angry so i think you did the right thing.

Don't feel bad. If I were you, I would have jawed him, so I think that might have hurt more



Is he in anyway your freind, like he does it as a joke, or really means it when he says hit for the hell of it? If he means it or does it too look cool, you did the right thing

I used to get teased myself.

Then I turned into a 6'2" 235 lb. behemoth. Needless to say, it's for the most part stopped. So keep growing and you'll be cool. And in the rare occasion someone decides to do the whole "you're a fag" thing, I just mess with them until they get confused and leave (I used a different word for mess until I discovered how wrong it was). Not taking them seriously and not giving a damn is probably your best bet in the long run.



Is he in anyway your freind, like he does it as a joke, or really means it when he says hit for the hell of it? If he means it or does it too look cool, you did the right thing

He is not my friend.

Dude, You did the right thing. There will be assholes everywhere you go (not in the nesfiles anyway). And you just have to defend yourself. If its verbal assault, talk back. If its just assault, fight back! Even if you lose, the guy will stop. Why? Because if you always let him walk all over you. He'll bother the hell out of you!

Great job Man



Are you sure he wasn't messing with you, like he just said that to make you feel bad? For example, if you made a "your mom" remark he would say that his mom is dead even though she isn't. You did the correct thing anyways.



Agreed, its extremely irritating.

That Red is painful to read.